Lillia's story

17th June 2016

Balloons were released to bid a final farewell to 4-year-old Lillia, who had been battling a catalogue of health problems since she fell ill with meningitis as a baby

Lillia

The brave youngster, who loved every minute of her short life, died on 12 May in her mother Simone’s arms at Sunderland Royal Hospital after she was no longer able to fight a series of infections. Her grandmother, Susan Clark, tells her story here.

“Lillia was born early after her mam’s waters had drained slowly over weeks. She was sent home the next day but was very sleepy, making grunting noises and not feeding well. Our midwife reassured us that she was fine. But when she was four days old she stopped breathing in my daughter’s arms. My husband gave her CPR while we waited for the ambulance.”

“She arrived at hospital and her heart stopped beating. Doctors worked on her and thankfully brought her back. She was taken to neo-natal intensive care and we were told it was an infection and they were doing a lumbar puncture, but the next 24 hours would be critical.”

“We had a priest come and baptise her - it was heartbreaking seeing her with wires and tubes all over her.  When the lumbar puncture results came back we were told it was Strep B meningitis.”

“Lillia kept fighting but just as she was improving we noticed that her head seemed to be getting bigger. Doctors told us it was fluid and drained it. Within an hour it was bigger than before it was drained and she was rushed for emergency surgery to have a shunt fitted.”

“By the age of 4 she had had alot of surgeries. She had cerebral palsy, hypotonia, diabetes, hydrocephalus, was partially sighted and partially deaf. She was tube fed and epileptic. Lillia fought every day of her life though – she was beautiful and smiled all the time.”

“Meningitis and Strep B need to be better publicised - people don't realise there doesn't have to be a rash.”

Lillia’s parents Josh Merrington and Simone, told the local Sunderland Echo newspaper “Lillia loved every minute of her life and always kept our spirits up by laughing and smiling.”

“We wouldn’t have done anything different. All we would have wanted to change would be to give her better health, but we’ve loved every second of her life and we just feel blessed for the time that we had with her. Now she’s at peace and as her sister Talia says, she’s playing with the angels in heaven.”

  • Ava H

    Ava H's story

    We miss her so much. I often wonder what she would be doing now and how she would look

  • Eva

    Eva's story

    She fought so hard but was just too small to be able to cope with the severity of the infection she was fighting

  • Duke

    Duke's story

    I couldn't come to terms with the fact he was fine a few hours earlier and that meningitis can strike so fast

  • Rubie Fisher

    Rubie's story

    When we awoke we found her breathing very slowly